The goal is not to inflate your ego by listing all of your wonderful qualities, or to deflate your ego by pinpointing your shortcomings.
The goal is to honestly and accurately understand what you have to offer another person. Some individuals are unusually intelligent, good-looking, athletically gifted, musically talented, and spiritually thoughtful.
If you’re a stand-up guy who treats women well, you should have more confidence than that. Maybe you’ll go up to her and discover she’s not good enough for you. And then we’re left thinking he just wasn’t that interested.
But the premise did raise questions about how singles with much different levels of attractiveness and attributes fare when they become romantically involved.
In the movie, Kirk is an average guy who works at the Pittsburgh airport.
And it will make you ten times more of a man than the rest of them who don’t say anything at all.
Most “hot” girls are more down to earth than you think. So either way, your approach will be flattering and endearing.
As you ponder possible matches and mismatches of your own, keep these thoughts in mind: Accept the “marketplace” principle of relationships.