Being honest about your feelings dating
It's even harder when the person is playing head games with you..really, why would you want to waste anymore of your time on a person who treats you badly?
Instead of trying to figure her out, because she makes no sense so it's never going to make sense to you, move on.
The other thing is perhaps she thinks if you are retired and she is working that maybe while she is working other things might be going on.
It could have happened in the past to her and yes it would be nice if she would talk to you about it but unfortunately some of us are not that lucky.
Why do we get so hung up on people that we should not give the time of day to?