The spark dating
I don’t know how seriously to take this lack of “spark.” How could I break up with such an amazing guy for no concrete reason?
If it is OK to slow down the relationship, how could I tell him this without hurting his feelings?
Dear Sarah, I’m dating a great guy…but it feels like there’s something missing.
After having a string of bad relationships, I finally put myself and my friends and family first and decided to take a year off from dating.
Spending more time together as “an item” will just heighten his expectations and deepen his crush. Don’t let that make you feel like a bad person—just be as kind and gentle with him and yourself you can.