If you’re patient and you feel good about yourself, eventually you’ll find a dude who’s not only turned on by your confidence, but will want to know who you truly are underneath those “extra pounds.” Good luck!
Ethan Ethan Fixell is a writer and comedian from New York City best known as one half of comic “dating coach” duo Dave and Ethan. For more on Ethan, visit Ethan Fixell.com…or call his mom, Robin.
The trick is understanding how to make height less of an issue.
You watch women – even women who’re around pass you by to date taller men. But you know what’s unattractive on aspect of your life.
Society tends to equate height with masculinity and power; when you are lacking in one, you feel that people assume you’re lacking in the others as well. It bleeds into your body language and into the way you talk and relate to others.
Just look at the pinups of the 1950s, or the stick-thin “heroin chic” models of the 90s – you won’t find either body type walking today’s runways.
Curvacious super-hotties such as cover model Kate Upton continue to represent our ever-evolving perceptions of physical beauty.
Look, I get it: you’ve been getting Oompa Loompa jokes since forever.