It’s creating a time where you’re going into it knowing that you’re going to have sex.
People say, “Oh, that’s so canned, it’s not romantic.” But you can be as spontaneous as you want after it’s planned.
It couldn’t be published because the main bookstore, Deseret Book, couldn’t carry it because members would be offended.
It’s masturbation, oral, anal—things that we hear people saying they want to talk about.
And really, bishops have carte blanche to say yes or no, so it really depends on who your bishop is, on what kind of experience you’re gonna get.